The Life of a Serial Mistress

Anyone fancy doing this?????

My my, isn't it amazing how some women like to jump on the bandwagon lol. She's even used the exact same lines as me! Same age?  Really? Good luck love! But the original is always the best lol Another Serial Mistress?????? I wonder how many of the 'new' mistresses have listened to how much fun I am having and decided to choose the lifestyle?

Ok I don't say much but....... http://news.sky.com/story/1537943/ashley-madison-adultery-data-dumped-online Good old Ashley Madison - I guess this story will run and run!

Maybe the tide is finally turning.  The comments on my previous few Daily Mail articles have been shocking, truly shocking, upsetting and offensive, all based on looks and nothing to do with my lifestyle or opinion.  The comments on this article finally prove the tide could well be turning :) Daily Mail 

The fabulous Rod Liddle interviewed me this week and it was filmed for the Sunday Times website. I think you can see it here  Rod Liddle Times Interview And the whole article is below.  An interesting take on affairs! Here’s a Valentine’s Day special report, just for you. The dating website Illicit Encounters recently commissioned an opinion poll in order to publicise its crepuscular activities. The company was set up to cater specifically for married people who wish to cheat on their partners and undermine the institution of marriage. It does terribly good business, among the distrait and disaffected middle-aged. According to the poll, one in three married people wishes to God that they hadn’t tied the knot. Go on, have a look among your friends and see if you can spot them. Her with that slight look of desperation in her eyes, the front of the black Hobbs dress a little lower than is really decent, him with the scary rictus smile and the jackhammer in his briefcase....

What a fabulous day I had yesterday.  The This Morning team were kind, welcoming and great fun to be around - as always.  It is worth the ridiculously early start to get there, and thankfully I managed a long lie in this morning after my gorgeous date last night, so I'm rested and ready to face the day.   If you missed it and want to catch my interview with Phil, Christine and Denise, check it out here. This Morning interview Thank you again to everyone involved. And to the haters - when you learn to spell or listen to a whole interview then maybe your opinions will matter to me :)

Sorry folks, it's been a while.  I've been so busy with my 'day job' and the men in my life, I feel I have neglected the blog and my followers - sorry :( Here's a cute pic of a baby anteater to make you smile and hopefully forgive me. There will be much more following soon.  Lots to announce, lots to tell, lots to laugh about. Watch this space :)

Mistress A mistress, or dominatrix, is used to describe the dominant female in a BDSM or sexual pair that includes a male submissive.  There are many forms of dominant/submissive relationships and the acts performed can range from gentle to severe. The main factors are that the female is dominant and the acts are agreed upon by both parties. The Role of the Mistress in BDSM Situations In dominant/submissive relationships with a mistress, the female is the dominant person in the situation. She dominates the submissive male with acts that deliver a combination of pain and pleasure. Men seeking a submissive role are not always submissive in daily life. It is common for men with high powered careers to enjoy relinquishing control and taking on the submissive role in the bedroom. Although submissive and dominant play is sometimes used by people in committed relationships, some men with a penchant for being dominated prefer to be in the hands of a professional. A profe...

It seems most people following me on Twitter assume I'm a 'Mistress' with a capital M and a whip in hand.  I have to say, I've dabbled a little in the past, but that is not really what the serial mistress is all about.  Yes its about being open and adventurous sexually, but it certainly doesn't mean I'm standing on a set of balls in my stilettos or pushing knitting needles into parts while a man cleans my windows in a maids outfit. However, I'm always one to please the masses - if they want to read these things - so I'll be posting some very interesting articles over the next few weeks about BDSM and 'Mistresses'.  I hope these are fascinating, and I hope you enjoy them, if not, simply comment and let me know, but any posts about sex are interesting - aren't they? :)

What do you think?? Personally, I love them!!! Greetings cards for lovers

Fascinating project in the pipeline.  Unfortunately I'm not right for it - in fact I'm probably exactly what it DOESN'T need - I'm the cause of jealousy! :) Anyway, I'm not sure if any of my readers would be interested in either taking part, or know someone who would be happy talking about their extreme jealousy, and what they are doing about it.   The details are below:- We are working on a project for Channel 4 about morbid jealousy and the effect it has on couples. We would like to speak to people in the UK involved in relationships that are blighted by this condition, which is sometimes called the Othello Syndrome. Perhaps this is triggered by an affair and the couple are trying to rebuild trust - but finding it hard - or a mental illness; paranoia, insecurity, psychosis. We are looking for people who're constantly checking mobile phones, emails and social media for clues of infidelity or another 'issue'. Perhaps people use lie de...

Interview with Andrew Peach on BBC Berkshire with me and Mike Taylor - can it ever help a relationship? BBC Berkshire with Andrew Peach

I had a fabulous chat with the wonderful Adrian Goldberg on BBC WM yesterday discussing celibacy and could we live without sex.  The ex wife of Chris Tarrant, Ingrid, talked openly about sex, or her choice not to have sex, since her split with her husband seven years ago.  I have to admit, she sounded more like a single woman with a desire to find the right man rather than a celibate woman, but hey, we've all been single and gone without for a while - I'm not sure that makes us celibate. Anyway, the whole interview is available here for the next six days.  Catch a listen and see what you think.  Could you live without sex? BBC WM Ingrid Tarrant and Adrian Goldberg

Hope you all enjoy it :) http://www.tfmradio.com/news/local/the-serial-mistress-i-date-married-men-because-theyre-better-trained/

Very interesting interview with Lorraine and Aled on the Daybreak sofa, with Marilyn Stowe, divorce lawyer.  Of course she only sees the fall out, because the relationships repaired don't end up in front of a solicitor.  What a shame she wouldn't listen to the teeny tiny possibility that an affair could help! http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=k-rUwgXbZe0#!

Or the Eammon Holmes show !!! Its a good job he's such a charmer in the flesh. http://www.itv.com/thismorning/life/can-affairs-ever-be-good/

The new year has started with a very busy week. Monday saw me heading down to London to do Daybreak at stupid o'clock in the morning!  Pretty good fun but gutted I didn't get to meet Louie Spence! :) You can still catch the interview here - for the next few days - if you can tolerate a few adverts.  I'm on at 1hr 28m through the show.  Feel free to let me know what you think :) https://www.itv.com/itvplayer/daybreak/07-01-2013

Happy New Year to all my followers - and sorry it has been so quiet on here.  Volunteers to slap my bum will be appreciated :) My new years resolution is to write more on here, so fingers crossed it will be more than links and more than waffle!! :) Have a fabulous 2013 everyone xxxxx

The link to the BBC Inside Out programme aired last night.  And I only had a couple of nasty messages, things are obviously improving lol http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b01nr5ky/Inside_Out_North_East_and_Cumbria_05_11_2012/