The Life of a Serial Mistress

The latest article on Female First... http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/real+life+story-253989.html

The lovely Rosie Freeman-Jones was on Sunday Morning Live this morning, and did a wonderful job - as usual. Check it out on BBC iPlayer, she's on from about 44 minutes into the show. http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b01md55s/Sunday_Morning_Live_Series_3_Episode_9/

I had the pleasure of debating the subject of cheating with Emiliana Silvestre on This Morning, with the lovely Eammon and Ruth.  Emiliana has written a book -  101 Ways to keep a man  and claims that even a serial cheat or player can be converted if he's in the perfect relationship, with the right woman.  The debate raised the question of 'Once a cheat, always a cheat' following the revelations in the press recently about Grant Bovey and Anthea Turner. So, do you believe a cheat will always cheat?  Or can he/she be changed into the epitome of monogamy with the right person?  Emiliana says the woman should make the effort to prevent him from straying, and in some respects I agree with her.  I've always advocated wives should try harder and their husbands would (possibly) not cheat if they are happier - however, the thought of constantly trying would be exhausting.  Should a woman really spend her life 'preventing' an affair rather than trusting ...

The Diary of a Mistress is going really well on the Female First website.  It is also on the Malextra site, so guys can read the female perspective on infidelity - and how we think after dates , good and bad.  I'm enjoying writing for them, however, my blog is suffering, but don't worry, there will be more appearing here soon :)  Watch this space... You can catch my latest Female First part here: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/Real+Life+Story-249807.html I can't quite believe it is up to Part 8 already :)   Yay!!! :)  Hope you're enjoying reading it xx

To whoever left the anonymous comment regarding a photograph, how am I supposed to respond if you are doing it under the cover of anonymity?  My email address is available on this site.  I suggest you contact me directly to discuss the matter further.  Wouldn't that be the most sensible approach?  I will leave the choice up to you! Thank you.

Yet again, the Jools Oliver subject rumbles on.  I was on the Mike Parr show this morning, on BBC Tees.  This is the link if you want to listen in.  The whole interview starts at 45mins.  A very interesting piece, with Rosie from IE, a woman whose husband cheated, me and then the lovely Denise Robertson - always fun!!  It goes on till about 1hr 20.  Well worth a listen. http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio/player/p00ty72s

Jools Oliver has hit the press today because she has freely admitted to checking husband Jamie's phone, email and Twitter account to make sure he's not cheating.  Fair play to her, she was open about it, and he clearly knows she does it, but is it a huge invasion of privacy, or something anyone in a serious relationship should be happy to allow? BBC Three Counties radio were doing a piece about it on their Drive show with Roberto Perrone this evening.  They wanted the opinion of a Serial Mistress, so here I am.  I'd love to hear your opinions on the matter too :) Available for the next 7 days http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio/player/p00twp43 And I'm on from 2hr 20 mins