Thursday, 19 March 2009

George Michael.........

No, don't worry, this post isn't specifically about George Michael, I'm not some strange obsessed fan :)

Following my interesting encounter yesterday, not exactly the 'normal' date that I am used to, I began to wonder if I need (or others on here and the IE site need) George Michael sex to make me tingle.

Let me explain. I am sure most married/attached people get incredibly bored with mundane, missionary position sex. Admittedly it gets that way over time with a partner, and most relationships end up boring in the bedroom, but what is my excuse for needing something more 'exciting, risque or kinky'? George Michael has admitted that normal sex doesn't turn him on anymore. He needs to do things in strange places, or with strangers, to be aroused sufficiently to get the 'buzz'. I realised that I don't really like normal anymore, but I'm not in a long relationship where the sex could possibly have got boring. After my latest encounter I was not only turned on by the man but equally what we did, and the promise of doing more things that would be against the norm.

Have I crossed the George Michael line? It makes me wonder if I can go back to normal or if I will always be on the hunt for riskier and kinkier activities, and if that is the case it scares me to wonder where it would end. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure normal sex would be wonderful, but would I ever get that heart racing, chest thumping, head buzzing thrill that pure adrenalin fuelled risky sex brings? I doubt it.

I think I may well be on a slippery slope with banana skin shoes on :)