The Life of a Serial Mistress

The latest article on Female First... http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/real+life+story-253989.html

The lovely Rosie Freeman-Jones was on Sunday Morning Live this morning, and did a wonderful job - as usual. Check it out on BBC iPlayer, she's on from about 44 minutes into the show. http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b01md55s/Sunday_Morning_Live_Series_3_Episode_9/

I had the pleasure of debating the subject of cheating with Emiliana Silvestre on This Morning, with the lovely Eammon and Ruth.  Emiliana has written a book -  101 Ways to keep a man  and claims that even a serial cheat or player can be converted if he's in the perfect relationship, with the right woman.  The debate raised the question of 'Once a cheat, always a cheat' following the revelations in the press recently about Grant Bovey and Anthea Turner. So, do you believe a cheat will always cheat?  Or can he/she be changed into the epitome of monogamy with the right person?  Emiliana says the woman should make the effort to prevent him from straying, and in some respects I agree with her.  I've always advocated wives should try harder and their husbands would (possibly) not cheat if they are happier - however, the thought of constantly trying would be exhausting.  Should a woman really spend her life 'preventing' an affair rather than trusting ...

The Diary of a Mistress is going really well on the Female First website.  It is also on the Malextra site, so guys can read the female perspective on infidelity - and how we think after dates , good and bad.  I'm enjoying writing for them, however, my blog is suffering, but don't worry, there will be more appearing here soon :)  Watch this space... You can catch my latest Female First part here: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/relationships/Real+Life+Story-249807.html I can't quite believe it is up to Part 8 already :)   Yay!!! :)  Hope you're enjoying reading it xx

To whoever left the anonymous comment regarding a photograph, how am I supposed to respond if you are doing it under the cover of anonymity?  My email address is available on this site.  I suggest you contact me directly to discuss the matter further.  Wouldn't that be the most sensible approach?  I will leave the choice up to you! Thank you.

Yet again, the Jools Oliver subject rumbles on.  I was on the Mike Parr show this morning, on BBC Tees.  This is the link if you want to listen in.  The whole interview starts at 45mins.  A very interesting piece, with Rosie from IE, a woman whose husband cheated, me and then the lovely Denise Robertson - always fun!!  It goes on till about 1hr 20.  Well worth a listen. http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio/player/p00ty72s