Monday, 16 February 2009

Am I really? ........

The backlash has been 'interesting' to say the least. I've had positive mail, supporting what I have done, and why I do it. I've had several 'friend requests' on Facebook, from men who are looking for a little extra. I've read, and acknowledged, the anger that seems to be brewing on the Fabulous Mag forum. But it astounds me that people seem hell bent on criticising me and what I look like as opposed to what I do and why I do it.

Some of the classics include :-


I hope she settles down soon and her man strays seriously get a grip on your life learn when to stop.Does she even think for a minue how the wife may feel??!!!
She is nothing but a fat disgraceful HOMEWRECKER!!
Get a life

This lady is a disgrace! It isn't just men who are capable of cheating but most don't as there would be no point to marriage if you could stray. I got married in September and this story really annoyed me. She should be ashamed of herself.

shes obviously very insecure about herself and abit sad really, she cant find a single man so tries to justify her behaviour by saying married man are better for her... ermm ok love.A very selfish and sad women who is getting on abit!

Karen's behaviour?Stupid,Selfish,i just hope that she ends up being the sad old loner she deserves to be(which should be any day now!)

42?! She is more like 52. And what on earth do the men see in her? She is a fat unattractive middle aged frump. They must be desperate beyond belief.


Its hilarious that my looks have been judged but my behaviour hasn't, and surely if I was as hideous as people assume then I wouldn't be dating anyone. I'd be sitting under a bridge waiting for goats to walk over it!! :)


  1. Hi Karen. I con honestly say I was amazed by the responses you were subjected to on that forum. Most were judgmental to say the very least, without thought to the many, many reasons why the men you meet do so.
    As a man who has recently, shall we say strayed, there is one overriding reason - my wife no longer wishes to have sex with me (my blog tells all). I would like to know what those forum posters would say to me - Am I expected to remain celibate for the rest of my life?

  2. No hun, you're not, and thats exactly my point. It takes three to tango when it comes to an affair. We are all adults, and a wife cannot blame everyone around her when she refuses to have sex or spends her life in leggings with her hair scraped back. Sex is to be celebrated and enjoyed, even after years together. Maybe I should run lessons for wives :)

  3. Well those responses say a lot about what society thinks affairs are about. I actually look a lot like you, and to my wonderful surprise it seems that not all men who are interested in affairs are after 25 year old ,size 10s.If the more average amongst are valued as attractive stimulating and passionate, well thats more difficult to understand than the affair with the 'bimbo' type