The Life of a Serial Mistress

It's not often I do this, but apart from laughing, I'm absolutely gobsmacked and quite disgusted at the email I have just received. I have been chatting with a guy I thought was quite interesting, nice profile, fairly attractive but certainly nothing special, and nearby (always a bonus). He hasn't rocked my world, I haven't made that much effort, but he was on the 'potential' list. Naturally I speak to several people while I am online, and receive several emails a day which I always consider, and respond to, politely. But occasionally I will take it further and get to know the guy until something makes me realise he's just not for me. This one was verging on 'not quite what I'm looking for' but I decided to persevere for another day or so, until I had made my mind up. He asked to see my photograph and I sent it to him. I am not god's gift, so I never assume I'm going to get a 'My god you're gorgeous' email back, but I...

I genuinely don't believe I've done this blog justice. I've been selective with my postings. I've posted rambling thoughts when I could have told my followers everything that was going on, but because everyone I meet tends to know about the blog I can only be vague about what I post and who I mention because I don't want to embarrass anyone or upset my 'friends'. But for your sake, and mine, I've decided to say 'Sod it' and post whatever I damn well please now! I have blogged mostly about my feelings, about the attitude mistresses face, infidelity in general and of course if I've been in the press, but I think the real purpose of this blog has been lost. It was meant to be an insight into the life of a Serial Mistress. So, for the sake of all my fans and followers, I will attempt to do exactly that. I've been negligent over the last few weeks because I've been so caught up in other things. I've also been ill too, which hasn...

I'm happy to welcome the girls of Illicit Encounters to the world of blogging, and hope they have as much success with their blog as they have had with the site itself. I encourage everyone who reads my blog to follow this one too. Interesting reading :) http://blog.illicitencounters.com/ Enjoy xx

A great article appeared in the Times this weekend, well worth a read, very well written and an interesting perspective. http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/relationships/article7036340.ece?token=null&offset=0&page=1

As seen in the Daily Mail - 2nd March 2010 Why you'd be stupid to cheat on your wife: Unfaithful men have lower IQs, say scientists. By JAMES TOZER Not too clever: Cheryl Cole has split from cheating husband Ashley, who is unlikely to win Mastermind, according to scientists Deceitful and despicable is one description that wronged wives could apply to their cheating husbands. Plain stupid is another. For scientists have concluded that men who sleep around are likely to have lower IQs. It is a finding likely to prove of interest to Cheryl Cole as she contemplates her errant partner Ashley's unfaithful ways. Dr Satoshi Kanazawa, an evolutionary psychologist from the London School of Economics and Political Science, said the smarter a man is, the less likely he is to cheat on his partner. His theory is based on the assertion that through evolutionary history, men have always been 'mildly polygamous'. That has changed today, however, and Dr Kanazawa explained that entering a...

This is just a funny for everyone to enjoy - I couldn't resist posting it. John Terry and Wayne Bridge met for the first time playing in today's match, Chelsea v Man City. They were meant to shake hands at the start of the match. But this little corker had hit YouTube before the game was even over :) JT v WB Handshake It just goes to show Wayne is still angry about what happened, and who can blame him. He also doesn't look keen to shake the hand that has been on and in his woman for so long! It's a shame indeed that two team mates can't sort this out, but thankfully they didn't beat the hell out of each other during the match. That's a blessing if you ask me. Enjoy the video, I did, and I wanted to pat Wayne Bridge on the back for doing it :)

I used to think that an affair meant there was something wrong in a marriage or that the wife had somehow 'failed' her husband. I'm snorting with laughter at my own naivety on that. It's in a man's nature to stray. I can honestly say that every man I know, without exception, has at one point or another been unfaithful to a girlfriend or wife. Friends, neighbours, colleagues; I can't name a single man who hasn't cheated. A friend of mine is a high class escort. Occasionally she has tried to get me into the business but I have refused. I don't want any part of that side but she has confirmed that 85% of her clients are married or attached. And the 15% who are single or gay have told her that they would continue to see her, or another escort, should they get hitched or settle down at some point. We have discussed at length the similarity between escorting and being a mistress and I have to agree, there is a fine line. As one of my lovers has said, ...