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Full Independent Interview....

The Independent article only covered about 200 words of the full interview I did for Heidi. I decided to blog the whole thing, so you could read a bit more about my life as a mistress, and why I do it. It might help my new followers understand my reasoning, and might allow my faithful followers a little more insight into the complicated mind of their favourite Serial Mistress :) How long have you been blogging? I started blogging in February this year. I have been writing for many years, but I was incredibly self critical, I wanted an outlet to be critiqued, praised and possibly appreciated so I decided to start a blog. What prompted you to start your blog? I hit the national press with my 'Serial Mistress' exploits and found, although it was a very controversial subject, there were people who wanted to know more. I saw my blog as a way to voice my side of the subject, because the press wasn't as 'favourable' or 'understanding' as I had hoped. The journ
And for all my new followers and visitors, please have a look at my other blogs, you might find something you really enjoy :) www.eroticmistress.blogspot.com www.smileymistress.blogspot.com www.agonymistress.blogspot.com Welcome to my series of blogs, and watch this space for new podcast sites :) xxxx

Independent Link....

For the really interesting article by Heidi in the Independent Magazine today - 25th July. http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/men-women/true-wife-confessions-how-womens-reallife-stories-became-the-new-internet-sensation-1757228.html A great insight into what happens online, and why :) Enjoy xx And well done Heidi x

TalkSport 'Sexpert'....

What a great show, if it wasn't for my dodgy sore throat and almost losing my voice half way through, thank god for Lemsip, it saved the day :) I've mastered the art of recording the show now, so fingers crossed it will be podcast sometime over the next couple of days. I'll do my best for those who missed it, but a huge thank you to those who stayed up, listened, and contributed :) You made the show xx Off to bed now, I need my beauty sleep. If anyone has any questions following on from the show then by all means email me and I will hopefully answer them, at least try my best :) Night night xxxxx

BBC Three Counties interview...

I was quick to 'comment' on the JVS interview technique with Rosie on Friday, but everyone who reads my work knows I speak my mind, sometimes too bluntly, sometimes at the risk of offending (but never intentionally) but always honestly. After listening to the interview again I considered if I had been harsh, jumped to conclusions too quickly, and missed the essence of what he was trying to say. I hadn't! But it made me realise that my honesty, and the honesty of those around me, and ironically the honesty of the men and women on the Illicit Encounters website, opened us up to the vitriolic attack on our nature. In days gone by affairs were quiet, seedy, silent, hidden and as such no one was ever criticised for it, until they were caught. But now, thanks to the media and technology, people can be far more 'honest' about what they are looking for and need. Being labelled 'grubby' simply because they have been honest with themselves about what they need to pot

Erotica Ball 2009...

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New Podcast site....

I'm in the process of setting up a new podcasting site, to run in conjunction with my blog site. I intend on running two different ones and will see how they both go, fingers crossed all will be fine and they will be popular, but if they bomb then I will stick to the blogging :) The Serial Mistress podcast will be a similar site to this one. It will be my musings about being a mistress, my opinions about relationships and of course snippets of my radio programmes. Some of the past shows will be the first items published, and I will see how they work. No doubt things will improve the more 'practised' I get at it, but we all know I wasn't brilliant at everything when I first started! lol :) I will then start the Erotic Mistress podcast (when I am happy with the hosts) and read aloud my erotic postings. I'm not sure how many people will want to hear erotica read in a broad northern accent :) Maybe you can decide :) Anyway, watch this space, there will be podcasting ,

The Independent on Saturday...

Apparently I am in the Independent on Saturday (25th July 2009), with a brief mention in an article about people who discuss intimate parts of their lives with many followers and fans in the form of a blog. Its a nice piece, but only 200 words, so I won't get much chance to offend anyone with my views or behaviour (yes there's bound to be someone!!) :) Heidi, the journalist, has interviewed several people for the piece, and it gives a balanced and positive view to the art, or pleasure, of blogging. My blog address will be printed in the national press, so I will make sure I get my bum into gear and blog more, its about time I did anyway :) Hope you enjoy the article, and I will be blogging the interview in its entirety on Sunday xx

TalkSport Show.....

I'm on Adrian Goldbergs show again tomorrow night/Friday morning. Normally I would put the link on after a radio show, to listen in to my mumblings :) But with TalkSport they have the 'Listen Live' facility, if anyone wants to join in with the show, call in, leave emails or comments :) I'd love my followers to listen in and join in with our very broadminded chat about sex and relationships :) I will be on at 3am UK time Friday 24th. Come and join in the fun :) http://new.talksport.net/

Radio Three Counties....

Link to Jonathan Vernon-Smiths show on BBC Radio Three Counties. He was decent with me, but surprisingly hideous to Rosie FJ. Good work handling him hun, but my god JVS, you should be ashamed of yourself speaking to a woman like that. Being controversial is one thing, but being rude is another! It strikes me you were speaking from experience, maybe thats why men are passionate about this subject! http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p003qc9s/Jonathan_VernonSmith_17_07_2009/ Starts 2 hours in. Available until Friday 24th July.

Reviews.....

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Who knew.....

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Well I think, maybe, we all did :) Thanks Shell for this article, fantastic, hilarious and very very interesting :) *************** **************************************** As featured in the Telegraph - Finance Section - 8 th July 2009 ******************************************************* Cheating husbands and wives spend more on love affairs than pension Cheating husbands and wives spend more on their love affairs than they do putting money aside for their retirement. By Myra Butterworth , Personal Finance Correspondent They spend an average of £291 a month on their love affair, compared to just £59 a month on their pension, according to extra-marital dating site Illicit Encounters. It suggests sustaining an affair costs £3,500 a year, which covers money spent on accommodation , weekends away, phone calls, gifts and flowers. Sara Hartley, of Illicit Encounters, said: "These figures are astonishing. It certainly shows us where people's priorities lie. Generally, those who

Sorry folks.......

Just needed to post a small piece to say sorry to everyone who loves my blog, and all my followers, because I've been very slack with my writing lately. I've been very sick for about 3 weeks, and it's now getting tiresome :( I have had problems with severe headaches, which meant I ended up being rushed into hospital a few weeks ago to have a lumbar puncture (big needle in my back) and several scans and tests. They haven't found what caused it all but its now left me with 'cluster migraines' so its rare I am free of the nasty headache, the sickness and the flashy lights in my eyes. Pain I can tolerate, it doesn't really stop me doing things, I'm made of tough stuff, but the worst part is the lights. I have been left with that permanently by the looks of it, and need to see an optician next week to see what can be done. If you can imagine looking at the sun for a minute and then trying to read something on screen or in a book, part of the image disap

Have I become too choosy?

"Can't you see beyond his ear?" my friend asked when I told her why 3 date Dave wasn't getting a 4 th . "Seriously, its like tracing paper - the light shone behind it and I could see the veins!!" I said. Sadly, although I could see through his ear I couldn't see past it to a future with him. I used to put up with a lot, I was never too choosy, if he was attractive and had a good personality I could cope with most things, but the night I made my excuses to leave a date with a man who had a belly button piercing, seemed to signal the dawning of my choosy phase. I had visions his penis would resemble a rusty breakers yard and quite frankly I didn't want to stick around to find out. The last time I had encountered an intimate piercing I regretted it for a week, after catching it on a filling and almost biting it off with the shock and pain. If anyone has ever chewed on silver foil with a filling you will know the pain and reluctance to repeat the act!!